Dating and ultimatums
Put simply, a needy person doesn’t feel good inside and then saddles the other person with the responsibility to make them feel better… whoops, “my battery died, sorry I didn’t call you back last night.” Nobody’s perfect. When you boil it all down, neediness is not some set of behaviors. When a person takes on the belief that another person is responsible for their happiness, their sense of well-being and their sense of self-esteem, then it’s guaranteed that they’re going to act needy as a result of that mindset.
On the other hand, when a woman acknowledges him for all the things he’s doing well, he will almost certainly want to deepen the relationship and stay in it. We’re supposed to be emotional robots with no feelings or desires and just accept anything a guy is doing without complaint? You create a relationship with those qualities by inspiring those things within the relationship.
Beta male orbiters are the butt of the mens’ communities jokes. I have women in my life, girls who I see and sleep with, but I have very few close female friends. It’s just that, most of them don’t stimulate me intellectually, not enough to give them my valuable time. I talk about different things with women, I interact with them differently than I do with men, and it’s not that it’s better or worse.
These guys drive their crush everywhere, they provide emotional support when she gets dumped, buy her trips and vacations, clothes, jewellery, and dish out free cuddles when she’s grumpy. Sure I’ll go for coffee sometimes, or to a party, but I have a much more interesting time when I hang out with men.
The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife.
They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.
They put up with low character behaviour, like when she’s whining about petty things.